Constantly Feeling Judged: How to Stop Worrying What Others Think About You
Allison Fischer Allison Fischer

Constantly Feeling Judged: How to Stop Worrying What Others Think About You

In this episode we discuss how to stop worrying about what others think about you and being judged. 

 Worrying about what others think is a universal human experience, but when it’s constant, it robs you of freedom, joy, and authenticity. Here is a roadmap to help you loosen the grip of “the judgment mind” and start living on your own terms. 

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Should You Stay Friends with Your Avoidant Ex?
Allison Fischer Allison Fischer

Should You Stay Friends with Your Avoidant Ex?

In this episode we discuss things to consider if you are contemplating staying friends with you avoidantly attached ex. 

 Deciding whether to stay friends with an avoidant ex is deeply personal—and it hinges on your emotional health, the dynamics of your past relationship, and what you truly need to move forward. 

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Obsessing Over Your Ex - How to Stop Ruminating and How to Heal
Allison Fischer Allison Fischer

Obsessing Over Your Ex - How to Stop Ruminating and How to Heal

In this episode, we discuss how to stop ruminating over and having obsessive thoughts about your ex. 

 Ruminating over an ex can feel like being tethered to the past—especially when you’re operating from a place of feminine receptivity and sensitivity. Yet tapping into your innate feminine power is exactly what will free you from this cycle. Healing isn’t about “turning off” your feelings; it’s about lovingly guiding them back into wholeness. 

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The Feminine Duality of Accepting Your Fate While Creating the Life You Desire
Allison Fischer Allison Fischer

The Feminine Duality of Accepting Your Fate While Creating the Life You Desire

In this episode, we discuss accepting our fate which involves a deep recognition of what is beyond our control—acknowledging the circumstances, events, or natural rhythms that life presents—while also embracing the power we have to shape our responses and make choices that align with our desires. For a woman, this can be a dual process: one of surrendering to the flow of life and its inherent uncertainties, and one of intentional creation and self-empowerment. 

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The Need for Reassurance in Relationships: Is It Healthy or Unhealthy?
Allison Fischer Allison Fischer

The Need for Reassurance in Relationships: Is It Healthy or Unhealthy?

 In intimate relationships, seeking reassurance—from a partner’s feelings and commitment to one’s worthiness of love—is a common experience. At times, a gentle “I’m here for you” or “I love you” can soothe anxieties and deepen trust. Yet, when reassurance becomes a constant necessity, it can strain the bond and erode individual confidence. Understanding when reassurance seeking is adaptive versus when it turns maladaptive can help partners cultivate secure, balanced connections. 

In this episode we discuss whether the need for reassurance from our partner is healthy or unhealthy, having insecurities, cultivating conscious relationships, and recognizing our patterns. 

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Scared of Love: How the Fear of Love Can Hold You Back from Connection and Belonging
Allison Fischer Allison Fischer

Scared of Love: How the Fear of Love Can Hold You Back from Connection and Belonging

In this episode, we discuss the fear of love, why it is natural, why we do it, and how to heal.

The fear of love—often called philophobia—is more than just hesitancy toward romantic relationships. It encompasses a broader anxiety surrounding deep emotional intimacy, vulnerability, and the possibility of loss. Despite love being a fundamental human need that fosters connection and belonging, this fear can become a significant self-imposed barrier. By understanding its origins, how it manifests in behavior, and strategies for moving through it, individuals can begin to dismantle the walls built around their hearts and open themselves to meaningful connections.

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Low Vibrational Attachment and It's Correlation to Insecure Attachment Style and the Situationship
Allison Fischer Allison Fischer

Low Vibrational Attachment and It's Correlation to Insecure Attachment Style and the Situationship

In this episode, we discuss low vibrational attachment and how it is not about true love—it’s more about clinging to feelings and patterns that are driven by insecurity and need rather than authenticity and emotional maturity. Recognizing these patterns can be a first step toward seeking healthier, higher vibrational connections that are grounded in unconditional love and mutual respect.

Insecure attachment styles—such as anxious or avoidant attachment—often play a significant role in the dynamics of situationships. In these loosely defined relationships, individuals may unconsciously replicate patterns formed in early relationships, where fear of abandonment or discomfort with intimacy drives behavior rather than genuine connection. In this episode, we break down how these patterns can manifest in situationships, particularly when one person has compromised integrity and the other has compromised self-esteem.

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What Persephone Teaches the Feminine About Periods of Transition in Our Lives
Allison Fischer Allison Fischer

What Persephone Teaches the Feminine About Periods of Transition in Our Lives

In this episode, we discuss Persephone’s myth - a powerful metaphor for transitions in a woman's life, particularly those that involve cycles of growth, descent, and rebirth. Her journey from maiden (Kore) to Queen of the Underworld mirrors many key transitions that women experience, such as coming of age, motherhood, loss, personal transformation, and even spiritual awakening.

By consciously aligning with Persephone’s myth, a woman can invite the dual forces of creation and transformation into her life. Embracing both the descent into the unknown and the triumphant return can empower her to craft a life that is not only renewed but also imbued with deep self-knowledge, creative energy, and sovereign grace.


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The Misguided Beliefs Around Unhealthy Self-Reliance: How Baby Boomers Interact with Their Children and Grandchildren
Allison Fischer Allison Fischer

The Misguided Beliefs Around Unhealthy Self-Reliance: How Baby Boomers Interact with Their Children and Grandchildren

In this episode, we discuss the misguided beliefs around self-reliance that Baby Boomers had passed on to them from their parents, their lack of healing their wounds and trauma, how this affects their children and grandchildren, causes the younger generations to go no contact or low contact, and how Baby Boomers have contributed to the inequality and authoritarianism we are seeing in the United States today. 

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