How the Feminine Abandons Herself: The Correlation Between Self-Abandonment, Childhood Wounds, and Insecure Attachment and How the Feminine Can Reclaim Her Self-Identity

Self‑abandonment is the habitual overlooking—or outright suppression—of one’s own needs, feelings, and boundaries in order to maintain connection with another. For a woman socialized into a “feminine” role—encouraged to be nurturing, adaptive, and relationship‑focused—self‑abandonment can become nearly automatic. In this episode, we discuss how this unfolds, how it ties back to childhood wounding and insecure attachment, and how it plays out in unhealthy partnerships. 


I’m Allison.

Writer, teacher, guide, podcast host, and founder of Create Love Freedom, an online space for women to reclaim their feminine, heal, transform, and come home to their feminine energy, feminine power, and feminine radiance.

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