The Martyr Wound: When Suffering Becomes a Trauma Response
For centuries, women have been praised for their ability to suffer beautifully. In religious texts, family roles, and spiritual narratives, they are canonized not for their power—but for their pain. Beneath the surface of sainthood and virtue lies an inherited pattern: martyrdom as a trauma response. Conditioned to equate love with sacrifice and holiness with self-erasure, many women carry complex trauma wrapped in the robes of devotion. This conversation unravels the martyr archetype as a survival strategy forged by patriarchal religion, childhood enmeshment, and generational suppression—and offers a pathway back to sovereignty, sacred rebellion, and embodied worth.
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